Relationships are not easy. Sometimes people we love can start to get under our skin a bit. What can we do to feel good vibes when we see, hear or feel the presence of another? Why do people annoy us anyway? I’ve found that typically things that bother us are old wounds from the past that are already sensitive within us. We might not even recognize the wound because it’s a different person or relationship than the wound we got in the past. We definitely recognize the uncomfortable feelings that come with the old wound however. Maybe we see something in another person that we don’t like about ourselves. When we see that reflection and it doesn’t look too pretty, we might feel a bit agitated not even realizing why we feel that way. Consciously we probably don’t realize that we are seeing a reflection of ourselves. We hear people come into our lives to teach us things. Are we open to learning? All this talk doesn’t sound like much fun. What happened to soul mates? Where is the fun, joy and ease?

The work I do is all about subconscious programming. The subconscious is timeless which is why old wounds still hurt. Something that happened to us 30 years ago is just as traumatic today in the subconscious mind. It may not feel that traumatic now but that is because we are probably thinking about it with the conscious mind which is time bound. The aftermath in our systems from a trauma, (which can be large like a death or smaller like an unkind look or comment,) lives on in the subconscious creating dis-ease, stress, anxiety etc.

How do we get our relationships where we want them to be? A relationship balance is a great place to start. In this process, we find out what parts of our system are weakened when we see, hear or think of the other person we want to improve our relationship with. It could be a lack of self worth or lack of harmony and contentment. There could be many other feelings and limiting subconscious beliefs that keep our relationships from being the best it can be. Once we identify these growth opportunities we can reprogram the subconscious and turn these weaknesses into strengths.

I used to cringe each time I heard my hubbies squeaky car pull into the driveway or when I heard him snore. Why? These things were triggering some of my limiting beliefs. I was able to turn these triggers around to support my love for him instead of getting frustrated. What a powerful process!

Part of a relationship balance gives us the chance to say and hear what we’ve always wanted to say or hear. I know how powerful this process is because it always seems to come with tears. If he would just tell me how much he loved me or if she would just say I’m sorry, everything would be better! This balance process is the perfect time to say and here these things.

What’s next? A bonding process to help you visually, auditorily and kinesthetically get in touch and in harmony with your partner.

This whole process takes less than an hour and will change your relationship for the rest of your lives. What a great gift to share with someone you love. Watch these two videos to learn more about how this process can transform your relationships and your life.

Want to hear more about this topic? Join me February 17th, 2018. Register here.